Archive - The Pole

what to do if you say something that makes someone feel bad | #56

Conflict Resolution for people scared of conflict: part 2

Oct 20, 2024 •

what to do if someone tells you a thing that makes you feel bad | #55

Conflict Resolution for people scared of conflict: part 1

Oct 18, 2024 •

June 2024

How to have rizz: a protocol for connecting with others | #54

just be yourself.. unless yourself sucks, then go to therapy (or something like it) AND THEN be yourself

Jun 26, 2024 •

May 2024

Facing your fears when they're valid | #53

a reflection on my career history, my mistakes, and my plan going forward

May 29, 2024 •

How to complain properly | #52

(and how to hold space for complainers properly)

May 1, 2024 •

March 2024

Hey friends, I’m going to take a break from writing these emails for a bit.

Mar 9, 2024 •

What I Enjoy 🤝 What Makes Money: some insights | #50

still procrastinating :(

Mar 1, 2024 •

February 2024

The hardest part (so far) of my plan | #49

I'm still trying so hard to not try so hard

Feb 23, 2024 •

How to "not try too hard" | #48

on taste, feelings, and AI

Feb 16, 2024 •

Everything I've learned about YouTube in a 10 minute skim | #47

how to make ideas interesting, what's the most important thing, etc

Feb 11, 2024 •

My plan for the next 3 months, seasoned with some neurosis | #46

Let's see where I'm at, come the beginning of May.

Feb 2, 2024 •

January 2024

How I teach myself dance routines | #45

map, memorize, master

Jan 29, 2024 •

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